I've come to the last resort... lol

Us guys are not good at reading minds, sometimes we move to fast sometimes not fast enough. Were not very good communicators either at times. If you want more from him, take the lead, I never heard of a guy not liking that. I think he likes you, he just don't want to scare you off. This guy might just be a keeper, only time will tell. But may not be great in the rommance dept. He might be fun to teach, if you are up to the task, and that would be fun for both of you.